1. Why do people find certain things interesting?
2. Why are some people so down on themselves sometimes?
The second question (Which I will be tackling first - I'll get to the first question in a second) is not exclusively related to the anecdote above, though obviously it is related, vis-a-vis why does Buttercup not think her blogs are interesting when they are? It's a common thing on GitP forums, that people will post photos of themselves, and everyone will say they look cute/pretty/adorable/hot/beautiful/gorgeous/[insert other positive adjectives here]... except them. They always think they look terrible. Well, not always, it's not a universal thing, but it's a very common one. And similarly, there are people who will sometimes deny their other good qualities. And these include some of the best people I know. (Oh yes you are. There is a reason I call you a Goddess)
OK, scratch what I said about the order I'm tackling the questionns, because I don't want to spoil the end of this one by continuing onto a second question afterwards.
Why do we find certain things interesting? In the context of Buttercup and her blogging about pointless things, I think I finally have an answer, which should have been obvious really, but anyway. Hazyshade said that she uses interesting sentences to describe boring things (Or something along those lines) and that finally made it click for me (Admittedly it clicked a couple of hours later, but it still clicked). There are (at least) two important elements to blogging: Content and personality. Now Buttercup's real complaint as I see it is that her blogging lacks content, which may be the case. But it has personality. To be precise, it has her personality, and that's what we like, because, well, we like her. Why else do you think we're friends? (Inb4 she comments saying something like "I thought it was because I have awesome boobs =P"? (Though you do also have awesome boobs))
Back to the general point, what is and is not interesting is excessively subjective, so it's quite difficult to be sure if something you make will be interesting to other people until after you've done it and they've told you. I suppose this is why comments and stuff can be so exciting for bloggers, or equally for youtubers, because they serve as an affirmation that there is a point to you doing this other than simple narcissism. And it's obviously good to have that sort of affirmation for something you kind of want to be doing (Which we obviously do, otherwise we wouldn't have put these boxes on our heads and declared that we are now
And of course really the issue of thinking your blogs (or whatever) are not interesting is just a matter of confidence in that particular area. Which I guess I can understand. Well, I don't guess, I can understand it. I have not always been the most confident of people. In fact I'm still nowhere near the most confident of people. The process of me becoming more confident has been a mostly pretty gradual one, through years of singing and acting and trying to socialise and being awkward, and one lovely conversation at an after-show party which pretty much amounted to me getting a pep-talk (My Josephine, I love and miss you).
And so again this is why getting that affirmation is important, to give us the confidence to do the things that we really want to do. Even though sometimes it seems like that affirmation doesn't work, as I neatly segue back into my second question.
So, yeah, enough of my good friends will on occasion deny their own good qualities for it to become a bit of a pattern and I have to ask: why? I mean, OK, being someone gives you a much closer view than just knowing someone (That sentence was weirdly phrased, but whatever). So you have a much clearer conception of your own flaws than other people do. Well, sometimes anyway. But, I don't think that can fully account for it, because if someone I like says to me "No, I'm so terrible, I have x, y and z flaws," I can generally see where they're coming from on that, but on the other hand, why should I care? They're awesome people anyway, and generally, being aware of their flaws means they're also working towards getting rid of them. Surely having a better view of yourself than other people should give you a clearer conception of your positive qualities as well as your negative ones?
There isn't really going to be a conclusion on this, because I don't understand it. And that bothers me, partly for the simple fact of not understanding, but much more for the thing itself. Important as my own knowledge and understanding is to me, my life carries far less meaning without the people I love. As I see it, I'm surrounded by awesome people, but many of them don't seem to recognise their own awesomeness, and I don't know how to make them realise how wonderful they are.
One of the worst things is to know that something so important is wrong in your world, and you don't know how to fix it. Until I figure out a better way, I'm just going to keep reiterating that you're amazing and I love you all. And I love with good reason.
And you should always remember this.